Tips and lifestyle

What comes to your mind when you hear the word life? Personally, I would say it is a personal journey. Many are times when we make decisions based on what we have seen before or people's opinions about our lifestyle. On many cases people criticize or try to advise you when they think your way of life is not in alignment with what has been or how they lived or live their lives. Get an education, get a job, get married, have kids and that's it, your life has ended, is what people perceive as a perfect way of life. Once you go out of this line, people say "you have destroyed your life" or "you have lost it." But, have you ever sat down to ask yourself what life really is? I think, life is defined by an individual based on their passion and experience, what works for an individual and what they feel fulfilling. Whether or not you get married, you get that degree Or have children, it is still life because, that's your journey. your lifestyle

We live for fashion  Did I hear fashion?? Well...Yes, you heard that right, the heart of fashion.  Fashion is a feeling that can only be felt and lived by a heart of trend,  it takes a certain amount of nerve to fall in love with fashion and once you do,  you live in the world of colors.  Blue and white, two colors that blend perfectly fine. Don't be afraid to mix colors but,  keep an eye on the matching ones. You surely don't want to go out there looking like you don't have a dressing mirror anywhere in your home. Choose the best colors when it comes to mixing and if you want a single color,  let it not look dormant.  At least,  let that color have a different color of tripes or any figure.  When an outfit is color dormant,  it doesn't attract,  it looks ordinary and common such that people glimpsing at you will not find the excitement of doing so.  Note: your hairstyle must match your sling and how you carry yourself should too, if not,  you will seem like you don'

How many things will you have to fight, to hide one truth? How many people will you hurt because of your ussumptions? Unexpected change There are so many things you thought you'd never become or do that you have become and done. And there are so many different things you thought you would become but have not become. It is so rare to find people that will tell you about their real struggle, pain and embrace their imperfections truly, most people are hiding in their various emotional comfort zones. Telling the truth and accepting it has become so intimidating and uncomfortable. But the truth is that wether or not we hide what we truly are, the effect is not on anybody else but ourselves, living a lie and having a fake life isn't going to do us any justice. Showing what we truly are and feel is going to make us progress and live a stress free life. Yes you are now an alcoholic! So what? That's a decision you made, don't feel intimidated and don't let anyone intim

Am I the only one that felt different during puberty, Teenagehood? If you are already a teenager, perfect, if you just became one, welcome to the club!!! When I entered my teenage life, I became very emotional, shy, and so hard on myself, I guess I didn't understand what was going on because I had developed so many pimples on my face, people liked me less and I felt left out, as a result, I lost my self-confidence. Every teenager has his or her transformation syndromes, a lot tend to lose focus at this stage of existence. It is the toughest stage of life because a lot lose it or make it at this stage, for it being the foundation of maturity and adulthood. A lot of modifications occurred when I turned 14, I became more beautiful despite having pimples on my face. A lot of men and boys started giving me unexpected attention, which made me feel important... I mean this is a teenager who was recently in a rejected position. I failed to differentiate between who truly loved me and wh

It is an annual event that blends the sport of polo with fashion.  Date: 11th July 2020  Venue: Lusaka Polo Club  Theme: Polo in Yellow Clinking glasses This year's Lusaka July as read in the theme, was all yellow, the language that everyone was speaking,  walking and breathing. some of the yellow went wrong and some right, and we are here to judge. Lets look at this yellow   Looking at his outfit, what kind of person do you think he is and what do you think he represents? He dressed in a very simple way but outstanding. The only accessory he was putting on was the glasses which matched perfectly with his yellow jacket,  Not much at his feet but his black shoes which matched perfectly with his inner shirt. I would think, he is a very classy man, because there is so much quality on him.  Christina @tintin_model Not much to say about this yellow but,  she looked like a total goddess. The showing leg, in those red heels, matched with the chest burst, which connected with the cheeks, m

We get inspiration from the people that make us feel inferior. The problem is not with them but us. We decide to compare our chapter one, to their chapter three or more.  Step by step is how it should be, everything starts small, and grows with hard work. There are people who have probably given up on their dreams or goals just because they have tried to make things work, but things keep failing. It's okay to be inspired, aim to be the best,  reach where others are,  but when you fail to reach that stage, don't give up.  There is nothing wrong with falling down  Everyone in this life has fallen before probably more times than you think.  People just choose not to publicize their failures, they choose to come out as heroes. That should not intimidate you, it should not make you feel useless or worthless. Trust your own process because darling,  you live in a life that you write with your own hands. If possible,  you should not be scared of falling,  falling makes you learn,  and