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Five bitter truths we fail to swallow


How many things will you have to fight, to hide one truth?
How many people will you hurt because of your assumptions?
  1. Unexpected change
There are so many things you thought you'd never become or do that you have become and done. And there are so many different things you thought you would become but have not become.
It is so rare to find people who will tell you about their real struggles, and pain and embrace their imperfections truly, most people are hiding in their various emotional comfort zones. Telling the truth and accepting it has become so intimidating and uncomfortable. But the truth is that whether or not we hide what we truly are, the effect is not on anybody else but ourselves, living a lie and having a fake life isn't going to do us any justice.
Showing what we truly are and feel is going to make us progress and live a stress-free life.
Yes, you are now an alcoholic! So what? That's a decision you made, don't feel intimidated and don't let anyone intimidate you. If people ask you, if you are an alcoholic, tell them the truth with no apology. You are entitled to your own life and decisions.
The moment you decide to hold the truth back, you lock yourself up in a cage of deceit. Change is inevitable and part of growth, embrace it.

2. Nobody hates you, people are. busy.
Everyone, wants to make a living, build a future, make money and so much more, why then should they put a stop to all that and instead, start to hate you?
Wake up,
He is not texting you not because he hates you, he is probably making some business moves or hustling to get his pocket handsome.
They view your status but don't comment, not because they hate you.
They probably took a short break from studying and decided to refresh their brains by viewing statuses, and maybe didn't see the necessity of replying to them.
Don't you think it's time you got busy too?

3. People don't care, they are busy.
(sounds familiar but different)
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You need to understand that no one is going to take responsibility for your life.  No one will solve your problems for you,  no one will work hard for you, it is your life. 
Complaining to people from time to time won't make them stop what they are doing to solve your problems, you need to take responsibility for your own life by understanding that if you don't boss up to do it for yourself,  no one will. 

4. The world can still spin even without you.
  • If I break up with him,  he will come back,  he can't live without me
  • These people can never make it without me 
  • Without me, that meeting cannot take place
  • They are nothing without me 
Darling,  the world just happens to depend on you because you are something available at the moment. 
Trust me if you were to die today,  it would be as though you never even existed, probably someone even better than you,  will emerge.
What I am trying to say is,  with or without you the world can still spin, therefore,  it is your responsibility to utilize the opportunity of being of service to the world while you still have it.
There are more qualified people for that position you are having. 

5. No one has disappointed you... It is just you.
People are not entitled to pleasing you... Sad but true. Everyone has a right to act according to how they feel,  hence,  if their actions don't meet your expectations,  let it be and understand that they also have a life to live, they cannot afford to live on your terms and conditions.
If he or she breaks up with you or decides to leave you for someone else, it is not something to cry or worry about. They decided because it is their life and they want to leave. 
It is not time to cry,  it's time to move on and improve your life.
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Comments

Taonga Thole said…
This is beautiful 🦋
October 23, 2020 at 12:39 AM
Tinashe said…
Only gratitude and arms full of love! This is incredible♥
October 28, 2020 at 7:13 AM
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