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How are you dressed? people treat you according to how you present your dressing.

There are times when you look at someone from afar and make conclusions about  where they come from,  what they do for a living, what they like,  what they tolerate and if or not they are rich.. 
But have you ever done that and realize that what you concluded about them is not true because of how they actually behave? Or how they carry themselves. 

There are people such that when you see how they are dressed and how they behave, you already know who they are and you don't need any introduction or explanation from them. 

Behave according to how you dress 


We look at how she is dressed.
You must have made conclusions about who she is, where she is going and what her values are....
And you are going to treat her according to the picture you have already set in your mind .

If this lady tries to act anything contrary to how she is dressed,  people will think she is pretending to be something she is not. 

That is why,  it is very important to dress according to who you are and act according to how you are dressed else,  you are going to lose so many opportunities in life because,  people won't take you seriously,  they will think you are a pretender.

It is so important that you act according to your dressing, no matter how you are dressed. 


Even if you dress like this,  don't try to act 
"am not what I seem" you need to act like you seem. so that people won't think you are not serious and fake,  cause remember people judge according to their thinking no matter what you say to explain your dressing,  they already have the real you in their minds. 

I've heard so many people say, 
It is not how you dress that determines who you are, but your character and values. 

Now here is the question.
Why should you dress like a stripper if you are not one? 
And why should you act like a doctor if you are dressed like a police man?

This is why each profession has its own attire,  so that people are able to tell who is who.  



 Dress like that,  we will think what we want to think,  act different from it,  we don't care,  we already know who you are. 

Act like you dress, unapologetic, even if that's not who you are just "act it like you dress it". 

Remember,  fashion goes hand in hand with character.

In case of any questions,  leave them in the comment section below.






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