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sharing part of me with the world.


what I've learned from the decisions I've made
What I've learned from the decisions
I've made 


It's not all the time that people make right decisions or decisions based on what they want.
And it's not all the time That you are required to make right decisions or decisions based on what you want. 

When I was little , I wanted to be a doctor. I told my father "I want to be  a doctor because medicine seems easier than these other courses." he looked at me and laughed. 

As days passed, I fell in love with fashion and the media.  I wanted to be every person's topic and I told my grandmother " one day you will watch me on TV acting a Nigerian movie." she didn't smile, 
Rather, she said, " you don't know what you are talking about." 


My passion for media and fashion seemed to grow as I grew older, it became the reason for my actions,  life and diet. 

Upon graduating from senior  secondary education,  I wanted to join the acting crew but I couldn't.
Not because I didn't want,  I had to make the decision based on what suited me at the moment, not what I wanted.

Plans changed, I said,  " if I don't act then am going to do accounts or pharmacy".
I ended up doing clinical medicine, because it was what suited me at the moment. 


People say,  do want you like else,  you will end up regretting for the rest of your life. 
But sometimes we just have to do things that suit the situation. 
It's not all the time that our desires and passion are right in the eyes of parents, God and your future. 
Some  decisions will end up ruining our lives even if they are what we live for.. 
Sometimes we just have to be the reason for someone's joy,  pride and happiness. 
Be that change you've never seen but wish to see. 


Comments

Taonga Thole said…
This is amazing 🥰🥰🥰it speaks volume
Loui$a said…
Thank you 💕❤ ☺
Anonymous said…
Wow..����this is so nice to read
Unknown said…
Well said😍
Be that change you've never seen but wish to see.

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