Failiure

😱I really hate to fail.

But the question is...

 Seeing that you hate to fail, you mean you have never failed before?

In as much as I might hate to fail,  I still fail.  I am one person who has tasted failure so many times.

Failure 

It happens to everyone, everywhere. You cannot hide or run from it,  it comes when you least expect it. Everyone has experienced it,  some are proud of their failed experiences,   others don't even like to remember it.

Can you admit your past failures proudly?

Yes... 

I've failed in most areas of life, cried about them and still got back up cause nobody  was going  to  pick  me up. 

So you mean failing is okay? 

 No way darling...  If you can do it without failing then that's awesome...

You must never aim for failure, what am saying is, in case you fail,  it's okay cause you will never know the true value of success if not tasted failure...

I was once told by my uncle after I asked "is failing okay? " he said

Very much okay... As long as it elevates you to a higher and untouchable position,  it is very much okay... 

I got confused cause I was seeking comfort for my failed continuous assessment. He went further and said

But make sure when you fail,  you only fail once and maintain your latter success.

I then understood to say,  failure is success in progress.

What am saying is,  what you do after you fail matters. If you work extra hard to avoid your previous failure you are unstoppable

This does not mean we You should be so cautious of taking risks. 

Just fall becase

Don't be afraid to fail... You can only jump higher if you lower yourself a bit. We don't just  jump,  we lower ourselves a bit,  then jump.. 

😊😊

Just fall.. 

Leave a thumbs up if you've failed before.