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life is not a recipe

What comes to your mind when you hear the word life?
I would say it is a personal journey.
Many are times when we make decisions based on what we have seen before or people's opinions about our lifestyle. In many cases, people criticize or try to advise you when they think your way of life is not in alignment with what has been or how they lived or lived their lives.

Get an education, get a job, get married, have kids and that's it, your life has ended, is what people perceive as a perfect way of life. Once you go out of this line, people say "You have destroyed your life" or "You have lost it."
But, have you ever sat down to ask yourself what life is?
I think, life is defined by an individual based on their passion and experience, what works for an individual and what they feel fulfilling. Whether or not you get married, you get that degree Or have children, it is still life because that's your journey. your lifestyle doesn't have to be followed or guided, it has to be lived, enjoyed and not wasted.
Make those mistakes, be a mess, fallout and fall in it's up to you, it's what you have chosen for yourself.

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