Facts about relationships (dating)

If you are in a relationship, would you say you are dating the love of your life?

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What is a relationship? Love? Dating?

A relationship, dating and love are things defined by self. These are things people call personal matters felt by an individual.

Love can be felt by someone and expressed in so many ways, others don't even express it at all, because they lack knowledge of ways to express the feeling.

WAboutour topic, a relationship is a relationship between two lovers.

Others define dating as going out with a person but in this case, it is quite more than just going out.

Is it necessary to be in a relationship?

According to what I've experienced, I would say it is very necessary to be in a relationship.

The reason is, that if you feel the need to be in a relationship, it means you have feelings that want to be expressed and if you hold yourself back and decide not to engage in a relationship, you will find yourself making so many mistakes that may even cost your life.

What I mean is that you will end up expressing your feelings that had to be expressed to only one person (your partner), to different beings whose statuses you are not sure about.

Therefore, if the need to be in a relationship arises, don't hesitate just jump into one without thinking.

How can I tell that this is the perfect person for me?

• I've been in so many relationships because each time I get into one, I realise this is not the perfect person for me and I move to the next.
• I am scared to enter any relationship because my heart has been broken a couple of times and I just can't trust anyone anymore.

These are the common situations I've heard.

The truth is, there is never or nothing like the perfect partner when it comes to dating. If that is what you are looking for then, you will remain single for the rest of your life.

Just get into a relationship, and try to make it work, if it fails, let it go, and try another until you find the one that will last.

The sun wouldn't matter without the rain,  would it? 

For those that have been heartbroken,  let it pass, let it go,  it happened,  move on. The problem is that when people go into a relationship,  they let their partners define who they are it's like their whole world depends on their partners.. that wrong 

When you get into a relationship, yes,  let your partner love you but you have to give yourself more love and stand on what you know about yourself so that even if your partner decides to leave,  you got yourself, if you love yourself too deep, nobody's presence or absence will disturb your inner peace.

So..  Just jump into another relationship mindlessly.

If I get into a relationship,  what will people think of me? 

I've been with so many people that  I've not dated but expressed my feelings to. Some amazing, some rude and some violent. Most of them left me because I seem not serious about being in a relationship with them and I've left others because I feel I can't get too serious with them. The fact that I've lost most of them hurts but I can't do anything about it,  I need to be society's good girl and keep up with my parent's idea of a good child.

This is a story I was told by some seventeen-year-old girl.

The truth is, that society is always going to expect something from you, and your parents are going to expect the best from you,  but the real question is, 

What do you expect from yourself? 

It is your life,  and no matter what anyone is going to expect from you,  you are the one who is going to pass through it and nobody will carry your cross, do what is best for your well-being.

Life is too short to spend it suffering and frowning,  grab what you can no matter how crazy and wrong it seems, make those wrong choices, make mistakes, and love, after all,  that's what life is all about,  define your own life. 

If you have any advice for the seventeen-year-old girl,  leave a comment below. She needs your advice.