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Loneliness is the new cool

Hello guys,  If new, welcome to my platform...
 Loneliness 

What is loneliness or who is loneliness? 

Well, according to my opinion,
loneliness is defined by self.

What? 
Loneliness is so inevitable,  something that drives emotionally weak people crazy such that if not handled carefully,  might lead to depression. 
some people won't accept it hence,  end up starving themselves or wetting their pillows with tears.

So,  what causes loneliness? 
Loneliness is caused by different situations. Some of them include:
  1. Relationship breakups
  2. Family misunderstandings
  3. Stupidity 
  4. Playing with people's emotions 
  5. Pride
And so on


Relationship breakups 
When people break up with their distinguished partners, they feel the world has ended, they feel nobody can make them feel better. It even leads to suicide
you may think your friend is entertained by your company, but deep down, she's lonely because she broke up with her partner
Family misunderstandings
This is the common reason for Loneliness,
Some families expect so much from their family members that they tend to add a lot of pressure on them... As a result,t people fail to meet their family's wants and get frustrated. 
They end up feeling unwanted hence their loneliness.

Stupidity 
Well well. 
Stupid people don't appreciate love being offered to them by people. They tend to make people who care and love them look stupid. As a result, the people that love them end up leaving them alone and they end up lonely.... Shay I know right? 
Playing with people's emotions 
Players...
If there is any person that is too emotional or emotionally weak,  it's a player... 
Without further explanation,  players are the most lonely beings on earth...period
Pride 
Proud people think the world revolves around them,  they belittle their friends hence, no one wants to be around them.
But why do you say loneliness is the new cool? 
Well-beloved,  take a look at this

being lonely is a very great privilege. A privilege to build yourself... 
To discover and connect with yourself. 
The only time you are going to get productive is when you are alone. 
People are only there to distract and surpass you,  especially boys... 

What? Are you saying we should avoid people? 

No bab.. What I mean is that if no one wants to be with you,  take that opportunity to do things that you never did when you were with them... 
The best company you will ever get is with yourself. 
Not that people are bad but my lesson is, learn to find comfort in your being, remember...  Healing starts with you and then spreads around the world.

Babe..  Life is too short and limited to spend it worrying about people. 
People are always going to be people...

You are the only thing that matters and the earlier you realize that,  the better.
Travel,  discover the world,  better still some people need your attention in hospitals and orphanages.
Use you. loneliness to heal the world 


Cause in the end none of these people will matter. 


Comments

Unknown said…
Wow this is so insightful and comprehensive. Really helpful, am sure many people are benefiting from such beautiful content.
April 5, 2020 at 12:40 AM
Loui$a said…
Thank you, please feel free to comment on what topics you want me to write on. Thank you
April 5, 2020 at 1:50 AM
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