Tips and lifestyle

What comes to your mind when you hear the word life? I would say it is a personal journey. Many are times when we make decisions based on what we have seen before or people's opinions about our lifestyle. In many cases, people criticize or try to advise you when they think your way of life is not in alignment with what has been or how they lived or lived their lives. Get an education, get a job, get married, have kids and that's it, your life has ended, is what people perceive as a perfect way of life. Once you go out of this line, people say "You have destroyed your life" or "You have lost it." But, have you ever sat down to ask yourself what life is? I think, life is defined by an individual based on their passion and experience, what works for an individual and what they feel fulfilling. Whether or not you get married, you get that degree Or have children, it is still life because that's your journey. your lifestyle doesn't have

How many things will you have to fight, to hide one truth? How many people will you hurt because of your assumptions? Unexpected change There are so many things you thought you'd never become or do that you have become and done. And there are so many different things you thought you would become but have not become. It is so rare to find people who will tell you about their real struggles, and pain and embrace their imperfections truly, most people are hiding in their various emotional comfort zones. Telling the truth and accepting it has become so intimidating and uncomfortable. But the truth is that whether or not we hide what we truly are, the effect is not on anybody else but ourselves, living a lie and having a fake life isn't going to do us any justice. Showing what we truly are and feel is going to make us progress and live a stress-free life. Yes, you are now an alcoholic! So what? That's a decision you made, don't feel intimidated and don't let anyone

Am I the only one who felt different during puberty and teenagehood? If you are already a teenager, perfect, if you just became one, welcome to the club!!! When I entered my teenage life, I became very emotional, shy, and so hard on myself, I guess I didn't understand what was going on because I had developed so many pimples on my face, people liked me less and I felt left out, as a result, I lost my self-confidence. Every teenager has his or her transformation syndromes, and a lot tend to lose focus at this stage of existence. It is the toughest stage of life because a lot lose it or make it at this stage, for it is the foundation of maturity and adulthood. A lot of modifications occurred when I turned 14, I became more beautiful despite having pimples on my face. A lot of men and boys started giving me unexpected attention, which made me feel important... I mean this is a teenager who was recently in a rejected position. I failed to differentiate between who truly loved me and

We get inspiration from the people that make us feel inferior. The problem is not with them but with us. We decide to compare our chapter one, to their chapter three or more.  Step by step is how it should be, everything starts small and grows with hard work. Some people have probably given up on their dreams or goals just because they have tried to make things work, but things keep failing. It's okay to be inspired, aim to be the best, and reach where others are,  but when you fail to reach that stage, don't give up.  There is nothing wrong with falling down  Everyone in this life has fallen before probably more times than you think.  People just choose not to publicize their failures, they choose to come out as heroes. That should not intimidate you, it should not make you feel useless or worthless. Trust your process because darling,  you live a life that you write with your own hands. If possible,  you should not be scared of falling,  falling makes you learn,  and become a

Self love is very vital in one's life.  It is the core reason for confidence and maturity. In today's world, people have discovered that self love is important and are using it, however, others are using it wrongly. Promoting: self gain Ignoring other people's needs Pride Unforgiveness loss of relationships  Self gain In the name of self love, so many people have become selfish, ignoring how many individuals might  get hurt  in the process. They do what they feel is right for themselves, all in the name of "self love". A lot of lives' happiness have been stepped on, orphans who once had a place to lay their heads on, have been robbed of their shelter, all in the name of "self love". Ignoring other people's needs You have a good amount of money in your pocket, a person in need of urgent help,  approaches you and asks for help,  but because you want to use that money for a chill or your hair or something to make yourself feel happy, you say "

Have you ever wondered why single people look so miserable?  Or have you ever wondered why lonely people look so gloomy most of the time?  Well... It's because they lack the medicine Saul. Which is?  Love.. OmG, what?  Love love love love..!  OK let's look at this queen  if you look at her face,  do you think she truly needs no king?  To be honest, she looks miserable,  and she needs a king.  Do not be deceived.  Every person needs someone who can say it out loud to them,  "I love you. " Even players need love. Love is a very powerful medicine for Saul.  You may have a very bad day,  but immediately you see your loved ones, your heart lightens up and you cheer up somehow. You may have problems,  but when you share them with your loved ones,  you feel lighter at heart as though a burden has been lifted off your shoulders. Love may not only come from your boyfriend or girlfriend,  it may also come from your family and/or